December is the month where we write wish lists and gift wishes for each other. It makes me want to share some tips with you that I have used for years and that actually work! It is not only in December that we can have our wishes fulfilled. You can always have your wishes fulfilled. Every day, all year round! Read how.
Since I was little, I have known that there was a force in the universe much greater than myself. Intuitively, I have always used this power and for the last many years, I have used it more and more consciously. The power has many names. Some call it God, the life force, love, the creative force or the universe. I refer to it most often as the universe, as that is what makes the most sense to me. It does not matter what you call it, the most important thing is that it is there. There is NOTHING religious in this power, but it is an immortal force that we can commit to when we learn how and dare to believe and especially act on it.
Over the years, I have manifested many things. Love relationships, jobs, people who had exactly the skills I was missing, clients, housing, money and more. The more consciously I learned to use the force, the better it worked. And even though I know how powerful and intelligent the universe is, I’m still amazed at how accurate it works when consciously working with it. And especially how easy it really is.
Before I give you my 3 steps to learning how to attract what you want – it’s called manifesting – there are some things I want to share with you.
It is possible to attract everything you want, whether it is relationships, a love relationship, material things, circumstances, new job or whatever it is YOU want. Everything is possible! The universe always says yes and the universe wants to help you and it has your back. All it takes is you reaching out. I usually call it “putting it over”. That means I allow the universe to interfere. Surrender to the fact that the plan of the universe is better than your own, and let go of how you imagine your wish should be delivered. It is not always delivered as we expect it, but it is delivered! So be ware of what you wish for, because it will become a reality if you follow these steps.
To manifest is, in my opinion, collaboration with the universe. It’s not just a lot of expectations you have, and expect it to dump into your turban. Humility and cooperation are part of the key for me. I humbly make myself available as a tool for a higher purpose. There is nothing self-absorbed or any ego in it, I am aware that I am the tool, and nothing else. So remember it is a collaboration that works best when the starting point is gratitude and humility, rather than just wanting things from the Universe without being willing to give back. There has to be balance in things.
Here are the 3 steps that will teach you to manifest
- Decide specifically on what it is you want to attract and what you want.
It is important that you are specific, the universe responds to exactly what you send out and does no intermediate calculation. Once you have decided then own your wish 100%. Believe in it and have full trust that it can become yours.
If you have the slightest doubt, it will not work. Before you ask the universe for anything, pray that what is to happen happens in accordance with everyone’s highest and common good. Write down your wish and say it out loud. Watch it unfold before your inner eye. And let that movie play several times a day.
- Shift your focus from what you want to how you want to feel.
Find the feeling. How does it feel when you have what you want? Meditate on the feeling as often as possible. Say it out loud so the feeling becomes real. Be the energy you want to attract. Wayne Dyer once said, “you do not get what you want, you get what you are”.
So if you want joy in your life then be joy, evoke the feeling of joy. The universe sends you exactly what you think and the emotions you send out. So if you basically think you are worthless, or feel depressed then the universe will send you exactly what confirms that feeling. Joy, enthusiasm, inspiration and motivation are emotions that make it easier for the universe (and the rest of the world) to work with you. It should be fun and feel easy to manifest.
If you want to attract love into your life, then evoke the feeling of giving and receiving love and stay in that feeling; pray in it and enjoy it as if it has already happened. If you want to attract money, stay in the feeling of having “enough” and that desire will come to you. The last step is perhaps the most difficult.
- Trust and Let go
Once you have made your wish, it is important to let go and sit back. If you hold on too much, that doesn’t work either. It’s about being so firm in your trust that the wish is delivered when the timing is right, and that you can just let the universe do “its work” without
Remember that there is enough for everyone in the universe, and the more you can integrate that feeling and wish others success and abundance, knowing that there is enough for everyone, the easier it will be for you to have your desires fulfilled.